Thinking

Been thinking again, usually not a good thing but it happens. So next week I am suppose to start packing this crazy mess of an apartment and I really have no idea how I am going to do it. I really just want the Army to move us, less stress on me and not have to worry about boxes and packing and loading or any of that stuff but it also means less money. I know that I will get it all done, just hopefully it will be as organized as I want it to. I am worried about my foot, I have a follow-up on April 28th, 10 days before we leave, I am scared about what he is going to say. If I have to wear the boot longer then that is fine, I will only be in the car and relaxing when we get home. But all I really want to heal before we leave is my tailbone, bruised it when I fell. It hurts so bad and sitting on it is so painful. I also have already come to the conclusion that when we go to Disney World that my foot is going to swell and be painful, but the smiles and laughter and fun that my kids will have is enough to make it all worth it. I am so excited to see their, mostly Shiana's face when she realizes where we are going. It is all going to be a surprise, I am going to put a basket together for each of them and that morning I am going to let them open them and of course video tape it. My dad has already got tons of batteries so that is not a problem and I am going to get one or two extra memory cards. They are going to get their autograph books and we are going to get as many autographs and pictures(separately) as we can and all those pictures are going to be turned into scrapbooks once we get back home. I am also so ready to get home and the kids can play outside all day, they sleep so much better when they get the fresh air and running. I know that Keylan will definitely be outside from the time his feet hit the floor in the morning till we drag his screaming self in for dinner and bed and then repeat the next day. But I have no problem with that, they need to be outside away from games and the tv. We will also be registering Shiana for school in June and have decided that the first monday of school she can start riding the bus. The only reason behind that is is because her bus driver has been part of my family since before I was born and I trust her; otherwise I would be taking her and picking her up. I think that is all that is on my mind for now, I am sure if there is more I will of course make another post.

a tough 6 weeks

So this past Tuesday I took a fall down the stairs outside. I had Keylan in my arms and my main priority was protecting him. I could have swore that I broke my ankle, I had perfect timing though because Jeremy was just getting ready to head back to work. Instead we made a trip to the emergency room to have it checked. I got in really fast, had x-rays done and was told that it was not broken or fractured and that it was probably just sprained. I was given a boot and told to basically just deal with it and to just make a follow-up. I have been trying my best to stay off of it since then but being a full time mommy it makes it kinda hard. I have been picking up in the morning and making the beds and doing what dishes are in the sink and then I sit the rest of the day, which hurts because I also bruised my tailbone when I fell. I had my follow-up appointment this afternoon and have to say that I REALLY like the doctor. He his very friendly and informative; he checked everything and then drew a diagram, which I personally like since I am a visual learner, and my anatomy classes paid off today. I have a grade 3 ankle sprain which is severe and ripped all three tendons that hold my ankle "together". I am to be completely off the foot for the next 2 weeks, which is going to be hard, and I am in my lovely boot till April 28th (my follow-up). I am hoping that at my follow-up I can take the boot off, but I could always have to wear it longer. This all really could not come at a better time. Next weekend I am suppose to start packing our apartment and getting ready to move. I am in so much pain I have no idea how I am going to get all of it done. And Keylan will be having a birthday too; I cannot believe that my little boy is about to be 2, where did the time go? I look at him and think back to the first day and all the ivs and stuff on my tiny little baby boy and now he is starting to have "conversations" and just recently knows the difference between yes and no and he knows what he does and does not want. But I am going to do what I have to with my ankle because I am trying to avoid reconstructive surgery, but I could still need it 6 months to a year down the road if I am still having issues. 

The Past 3 years

The Past 3 years:
- Jeremy left January 14, 2009 and I got him back May 14, 2009
- We moved June 8, 2009 to El Paso, Texas with a Uhaul truck, my car, 2 kids, and a dog
- Found that we were expecting
- And then lost the baby
- Decided to let God take control and then were blessed again August 14, 2009
- Announced our pregnancy to our families
- Visited my grandparents in Nebraska and broke down in Liberal, Kansas
- My awesome daddy bought us a new car
- In September I found out that I had 2 clotting disorders and was put on Lovenox, blood thinners.
- Celebrated Halloween with a kitty cat for a kid
- Got to spend Thanksgiving with my parents
- In December, we found out that we were having a baby boy
- Visited Roswell, New Mexico a month before Keylan was due
- Keylan was born April 16, 2010 and our world changed =)
- Spent 6 days in the NICU, though he was full term, that was the hardest thing that I have, okay almost the hardest thing, been through
- My incision opened and wore a woundvac for 6 weeks with a toddler, a newborn, and a husband in the field.
- The first 2 months were really rough, Keylan was on a very strict feeding schedule with hundreds of tests done and in the end he was put in the hospital (dx: failure to thrive)
- Found out that he basically has fast metabolism with acid reflux
- My little girl turned 3 and we went to the circus for the first time.
- Celebrated the holidays
- Then in February we got to know a wonderful person who is a strong woman and awesome mommy (Nikki =) )
- Went to Albuquerque, New Mexico
- Celebrated two awesome little boys 1st birthdays in April
- Jeremy went to NTC and started preparing to deploy.
- August 7, 2011 we lost an amazing woman that will NEVER be forgotten. We miss granny everyday and I talk to her often.
- September we literally had 5 different deployment days; Granny had other plans though. 6 days before the last deployment day Jeremy had to have surgery to have his appendix removed. Simple surgery, but still really scary.
- Enjoyed the holidays with each other and with our families at Christmas.
- We got home from visiting in December to get in the car the next day. My daddy had a massive heart attack and at that very moment did not know if he would make it. Thankfully, he pulled through amazingly.
- It has been a slow few months, but we are starting to pack our tiny apartment up and get ready to load up a UHAUL and head back to Alabama.


I write all that out and could go into detail about everything. It amazes me just how much stuff happens in your life in one place in just a few years. I started thinking and crying while I cleaned our bedroom yesterday. Keylan has slept in that room, every night that he has been alive and here. I have always had my little boy just a few feet away and now he is about to have his own big boy room. 

5 Weeks

I have just 5 short weeks till my little boy turns 2. I cannot believe how fast the time has gone. Keylan has and is so smart and it amazes me in the last few months just how much he has learned and actually grown. I am of course planning a birthday party for him for when we get home in May. I am stressing out already, lol, he didn't get to have a big 1st birthday party like Shiana did so this is important to me. I decided that we are doing family and close friends this year. I have a set theme for his party now I just need to pull everything together. First on my list is to get invitations done. I want to do my own with his pictures on it, but it is not working out the way that I want it to. Can't find a website to design it and have no idea how else to do it. I really do not want to just have a normal invitation, but it is coming close to that.

Life and ViSalus

I had my hematologist appointment yesterday, there was not a lot that he had to say. Basically we are reevaluating my levels and doing genetics testing to see what that comes up with. I had 16 vials of blood taken and there were at least 12 different tests that I saw on the lab report. The kids went to daycare/school for the few hours and they loved it! Shiana was very well behaved, something that I was honestly a little nervous about. Keylan played with kids his age and colored an airplane, yes it is on my fridge, lol. I go back to the doctor in 3 weeks for the results. Shiana starts school on Monday and will be going all day. She is excited about it and I am looking forward to it too. 


I am going to be starting ViSalus on Monday. I have heard a lot of people talking about it and that it does work. I am doing the $99 package, with it you replace 2 meals a day with a shake, eat one healthy meal, 3 healthy snacks and drink at least 80 ounces of water a day, and cut out the sodium. Also with exercising. I figure it will be easier to do with Shiana in school, I can exercise during Keylan's nap in the afternoon and the days that PT is at the gym I can go with Jeremy and walk around the track with Keylan in his stroller. My goal is to lose 50 pounds by August, I know it is going to be hard and kick my butt, but if I can put my mind to it I can do it. I just need support, which kinda comes hard to find. http://visalus.com/  <<< this is the site that you can go to to get more information and order from. And if you want to be one of my customers, just let me know! This is my personal page to order through >>>> https://aehoneycutt.myvi.net/profile/index.html So I will be keeping everyone up to date. I may do pictures, but honestly am afraid to, but I think that it might help me along the way. I am also using http://www.myfitnesspal.com/ to keep up with how many calories I eat, how much exercise and I burn, and how much water I drink throughout the day.  So here is to crossing my fingers and hoping this works and if it does then I might think about selling them =) 

Nervous

Tomorrow I have my first hematologist/oncologist appointment. I am nervous as all get out. I know I have two clotting disorders, but I don't know the extent of them or treatment is. But I am also nervous that Keylan is going to daycare, even if it is just for a few hours. He has been with me or close friends or my mom in his life, but complete strangers he has never been with. I am also nervous because I know how some people are with non-circumcised little boys; really wishing I had went ahead and ordered those stickers that I wanted. They said "Intact DON'T Retract", so I guess that I am going to be writing it on his diapers tonight. I am not worried at all about Shiana because it is the same place that she went to before. But, she will also be starting school full time next week. It will honestly be nice to be able to clean the apartment and do homework; and once it gets closer to the time that we move I will be able to pack without, hopefully, any problems. Send me some prayers; prayers that I don't stress out to much over Keylan and that I get good news at my appointment tomorrow.

Problems...

So lately we have been having problems with Shiana. She does not listen or follow directions, even simple ones, and it is a constant fight. I have been looking at different disorders to see if anything fits and I think I have one that really fits her to a tee. I know it is out there, but i/we spend everyday with her. I am going to call her pediatrician tomorrow and set-up an appointment to discuss things. Jeremy is all spank her and she will behave, but I personally do not believe in doing it. It would be all day long. One thing that she has gotten much better with is bedtime. I honestly need to organize our day more and stick to it. Starting tomorrow there will be an hour of tv in the morning and an hour in the afternoon. Bedtime will stay the same 8-8:30; snack, brush teeth, book, sleep. I am hoping and pretty sure that there is nothing wrong with her, but i feel better with talking this out and maybe I can figure out the right path to look at and follow. so I am asking for prayers that we can have a major attitude adjustment, especially since she starts school in 6 months.